Caitin is our negotiator. She has often achieved extra bedtime stories, drinks, treats, etc. by striking deals with Mom and Dad. For example, sitting around the table to bowls of ice cream, when she finishes before Dad she looks him in the eye (a rare occurrence in itself), smiles kinda' shy-like, and says with extra layers of sugar, "Would you like to share with me?" Undeniably presented.
This last week she picked up a new tactic that is slightly more frustrating...Sitting at the table with her bowl of chocolate truffle ice cream (to illustrate a parallel example only...uhh...no, actually, we do eat too many treats), scooping up the last spoonful she begins to scream, "No! I don't want chocolate! Mom, I don't want chocolate! I want
bannila!" At the first hint of a "No" from Mom the tears start flowing and the volume rises with the pitch to a shrill squeal that wakes up baby sister every time.
The new technique has been known to work to get a second bedtime story when Mom is in a generous mood. The second attempt in the same sitting, however, tips the scales the wrong way.